Email Driven Meat Markets

I feel like an asshole, just like the rest of the guys who are rejecting me.  This is how it goes: you finally get somebody's attention, then start exchanging emails.. then the critical photo exchange.  This is the critical juncture. If you fail in this department, it is hopeless.  My ranting and raving of saying everybody is so shallow, also becomes my own problem, as I try to politely decline from men who I am not attracted to.  In this business, I try to say "I am not attracted to you", instead of "You are not my type".  It's less harsh using the word "I" to put it on yourself, and not the other person.  The power of language is critical in an email-driven meat market.